i didn't vist my space for a long  time,today i come here and browse my pictures with happiness .

wether what a person are experiencing ,keep fit with a simple life ,that's enough to enjoy the life.

hope everyboday have a simple and happy life.

转发的,不过很有道理的:

暧昧,是可以推脱责任的游戏,没有承诺就无需负责;
暧昧,是勇敢者的游戏,无畏的人才能在角逐中进退自如;
如果你没有铁石铸就的心肠做软胃甲,那么你就别拿暧昧当爱情...
暧昧是，比好朋友再亲一点，但比情人远一点。 
暧昧是, 有感觉，然而，这种感觉不足以叫你们切切实实地发展一段正式的关系。
暧昧是, 明白人生有太多的无奈，现实有太多的限制。你知道没有可能，但又舍不得放手。
暧昧是, 有进一步的冲动，却没有进一步的勇气。
暧昧是，他不是你的情人，但似乎他比你的情人更关心你和了解你。
暧昧是，虽然他不是你的情人，但他却会对你说：你对我是十分重要的。
暧昧是，你感冒时有一个会在晚上打电话来，特意提醒你服药，叫你盖好被子早点睡的普通朋友。
暧昧是，每当他提及他的另一半时，你会万箭穿心。
暧昧是, 为了逃避背叛的罪恶感。
暧昧是, 甜津津又同时酸溜溜的。往往从未开始，已叫人不安，患得患失。
暧昧是，别人以为你们在搞地下情时，你会沾沾自喜。
暧昧是，别人问你们是否恋爱中，你张口结舌。
暧昧是，常常挣扎表不表白。你怕表白之后，你既得不到一个情人，却又失去了一个知心好友。
暧昧是，见到他，你会心跳。见不到他时，你会挂念他。
暧昧是，两个人都会互相猜想。他是不是已经暗示了什么？我是不是自作多情？
暧昧是，每天大家都会聊QQ，会互传手机短讯，无规律地偶然约会。
暧昧是，你很想多走一步，但又怕会吓怕了他。你会很小心流露自己的感情。
暧昧是，两个人没有承诺过什么。但虽然如此，你愿意付出的，比有承诺的情侣更多。没有责任，但你却很渴望去承担，不问回报。
暧昧, 是一扇门，你可以停留在门外，也可以踏进房子里面。然后你不可以停留在门下面。门--永远不是终点站。
我们暧昧，我们却不属于对方...
暧昧是糖，甜到忧伤这篇文章,
但凡说这句话的人，必定是尝过了那暧昧的糖，由味蕾的甜转化为心头的伤的人。
据说除了爱情和友情，还有一种感情。
它总是将你的心搔地蠢蠢欲动，想更上一层楼，却又怕登高畏寒，失足成恨。
它让你装作洒脱，说想忘记，说无所谓，却又无论如何舍不得放手。
它是一种糖，甜了自己，则伤了别人；甜了别人，则会伤了自己。
它是一个借口，有了它，可以逃避背叛的罪恶感。
它绝对的光明磊落，但也绝对的潜藏暗涌。
它是暧昧。
暧昧是糖，甜到忧伤。
听过一句话说，如果爱情像东坡肘子，暧昧便似鲍汁鹅掌，后者比前者更有回味。
暧昧是一种距离，有一些人，无论相隔地多么近，哪怕两人相互重叠，却还是只能擦肩而过，永远无法相互厮守，得不到，但也失不去，却也刻骨铭心。
暧昧就睡在你的隔壁，却永远不会穿透墙壁，不会逃离那边熟睡的人，而投奔向你，但是，隔着墙，它却给你带来隐隐约约藕断丝连的甜意。
暧昧是虚构，无法成实，你不说，别人未必知道，但是它酿造的甜蜜就在空气里流动，慢慢地液化、凝固，残留的是叫做忧伤的晶体。
有人告诉我：人是一种极没有出息的可怜又可恨的小动物！再华美的文字，再动人的句子，都敌不过双唇接触的一刹那；再崇高的道德，再重要的原则，都会在灵与肉的交融中烟消云散，土崩瓦解。可是，细想起来这也未必就是没有出息，也许这正说明了真爱的攻无不克，坚无不摧吧。
可是暧昧不是爱情，它是躲在爱情的阴影里不能见光的东西。如果说“爱如鲜血流千年”，那么千年来流出鲜血的是暧昧，委屈成全的是爱情。
暧昧是糖，甜到忧伤。
我们都是陈列在掌柜上，包装精致，不可一世的甜蜜糖果；你放荡不羁，剥开它尝到了甜，就注定有忧伤在角落里等待着。
我们都是走在空空街道上的迷路的孩子，向左还是向右；你平淡不惊地执起它的手，带领它走过温暖的这一站，可是在寒冷的下一站，你注定离去。
我们都是被天堂遗失的天使，拼命扇动翅膀寻找天堂的方向；你伸开双臂保护它，狂野而又寂寞地飞地很高很高，摔下来时，注定支离破碎，尸骨无存。
暧昧是糖，甜到忧伤。
有人说，鱼的记忆只有7秒，7秒后它不会再记得以前的事，我想说，人的记忆是一辈子，你以为忘掉的事情，其实永远记得。但是，无论是甜蜜还是忧伤，无论是温暖还是疼痛，无论是爱还是恨，都要忘记。
因为，人的记忆是一辈子的事，你以为记得的事情，其实也会忘记。
暧昧是糖，甜到忧伤。

每当想起自己做错的事情,心里总是感觉对不起一个人,尽管我选择忘记,可是在一定环境中我仍然有负罪感,由此产生的伤害,我感觉是自己太感性和无知伤害了自己的自尊.

一个做事情不考虑后果的女人,哎,谁又知道我内心深处的痛苦,我还是选择忘记自己的过错,回到平静的生活中去.

希望我可以生活的幸福快乐!

these days ,i find i want to have a home whether have house or car,but let me feel i am safe , comfortable and happy during live there.

i fail to know why i have this thought. acturally,if i want to get it ,it's not difficult for me ,maybe i worry about the life after having this home.

yeah,i am not happy now,no body could share this idea with me .

how i wish my lover now stay with me and protest me ,i feel a little lonely.

in the other words,he also still live alone ,it's my choice working here.

and i have feelings with my friends here,how can i make decision.

i am sorry to say that as i fail to know the reason about my bad mood. 

今天是六月的最后的一天,也是难忘的的一个月啊,哈哈,为了完成这一个也的任务,耗资聚多,这个月可以发500RMB就不错了,而且现在穷的还有50元(额外支出400),总的来说我是个负人拉.

同事也是因为外借加对自己好一点现在还有5RMB,两个穷人,这两天吃饭都靠其他同事多出点血啊.今天下雨也为了省RMB,我们就买点油饼和小菜凑合了一顿啊,尽管如此还是挺开心的,穷人嘛,哈哈.

我们期盼这7月5号啊,RMB也将有了,都计划好了如何花来,哈哈,现在是没有负担的时候就尽情照顾自己吧.

这次回去是为了经历一生一次最重要的分别,当我回到学校后看到学校里熟悉而忙碌的同学时,心里有说不出的高兴,每个人都是那么漂亮.

毕业酒会上,每个人都用酒来表达自己的感情,有的是感谢有的惬意有的是悲伤有的是迷茫----但大家的心情是类似,这是为我们准备的毕业酒会,没有几天我们就要离开这熟悉的校园熟悉的同学朋友,开始新的生活.因此,很多人喝的很多,也包括我自己,我感觉这次回来是值得的,可以再看看和我一起生活的朋友们.离别的气氛被哭泣声感染的更加强烈,社友们的哭声也感染了我,上次在火车上哭了一次,本以为这次哭不了,但那样的气氛对于即将分别的人来说,是无法掩饰的悲伤啊.

昨天我要离开她们离开学校,很想一个人静静的离开,但姐妹们执意要送,我只是害怕那么离别时的痛苦心情.很多即将离别的人,我们开始还可以开玩笑的到火车站,但是当我坐到火车里,看到外面的妹妹们,我控制不住的哭开了,这就是分别啊,让我很难受,不得不走的离别啊----看着她们红红的双眼,忍不住趴到窗口牵她们的小手说着道别的话,说着珍重!

亲爱的朋友们,我很感谢你们送我,我是走的比较早的,所以很幸运可以看到你们到最后,我希望大家都要走好,以后再次相聚,我希望我们在HOTEL一起看电视睡觉------,哈哈.

分别不代表我们彼此将忘记彼此,你们都在我心里,常联系啊!

不知从何时起开始"吃散伙饭",明天我就要参加人生中很重要的一次散伙饭了,此时的心情很复杂.

本打算不回去的,可同学们都很想念我,非常希望我回去,仔细想想这次也许是我最后一次见她们了,也是我人生中重要的一次经历.

明天也有可能是我最后一次去烟台了,我会用心记住烟台的一切生活,整整四年的点点滴滴-----

不管明天的毕业酒宴有没有意思,我都会记住的,我也即将结束我的大学生涯---

一直以来都以为只有女人缺少安全感,需要男人给女人稳定,我也是在寻找这种稳定,而今天早上我又说"能不能不要我的心这样漂泊,我需要稳定",而我听到的回答让我愣住了"你何时让我感到稳定过".

这是我第一次听到这样的要求,男人和女人一样都需要稳定啊!我感觉自己太自私了都是在寻找自己的感受而没有体会到其他人的感受.

我也不知以后的路该如何走,希望我一路走好!

23点了,无法从失望和悲痛中走出来,托着疲倦的身子走出宿舍来到办公室,打开电脑,在这期间我就有一个想法,现在就离开这里,给同事留个言以免他们找不到我着急.

坐下后看到小一在线,我激动的告诉她我要回去了,她们非常高兴,她们很想我,我也很想她们,就这样我查火车车次-----当给经理留言时我犹豫了,我这样走的后果是什么,他们会不理解我这样做的原因,他们凭什么会谅解我,因为我已经不是学生,没有谁可以象父母那样去理解我的任性和冲动.而我要离开的原因很复杂,我也不知自己到底是为了什么,自从上次回来我就越来越不开心,越来越压抑自己,我还要把感情问题扩大,现在也不会去理解别人而只是寻找自己的感受.想着想着,我突然觉得这样走太不值得也没有意义,有什么事情过不去的,最后我还是没有走,又静静的回到宿舍,哭了一会,太累了就睡了-----

我明白了一点,这也是我第一次克制了冲动的举动,我明白了自己应该对自己的行为负责,冲动会有惩罚的.

好好生活吧!

本来是要关机让某个人着急,结果是我自己,我一夜没有睡觉因为联系不到他,我是个性子急的人,疯一般的打所有可以打的电话,一遍遍的----可终究没有联系上,我心里好害怕好担心,担心他会有什么事情,一想到这我就在半夜一个人痛苦的哭,没有人可以理解我当时的心情,没有人理解---

我当时我时间里煎熬着,知道天亮收到一条他的短信息.我才安心.

但是我说过,我不会原谅他,不会,我害怕那种感觉.

 

 

我不知道自己为什么今天那么敏感由一件小事情引发我对人际关系的复杂而反感.

人与人之间最重要的是信任,其次是诚恳,我不知道自己是否让别人可信,但我一直都这样对待我周围的人,也很希望别人也这样对我.可实际情况不是这样,现在看来每个人的私心很重.我也不知改怎么说自己现在的感受.

我只希望生活在信任和真诚之间,我不喜欢不爽快的人.

 

how can i do for u ?i don't know,where i will stay ,i don't know.so many things can't be sure.

when i lose ,i only feel my heart is empty and empty.i don't know what to do and how to do.does the result is my need.i never want to go through the same experiece in my life.i am so sad now just like a bird losing her wing.

maybe time will tell me how to do.

i can't express my feelings now ,only be sense of being wronged.

i think it's myself hurt my heart and self-esteem,what a pity!

only want to forget the bad things,and keep the good mood facing tomorrow.

no one would know my true feelings now,how i wish my lover standing beside me.i only belive him.

every body don't wish the others force you to do what you don't want to .if you are stronger in your principle,you could say "no" loudly.but for me ,my weak point is that i am easy to meet the others and don't wish the others not happy .i know ,after that i will be not happy,i will try to forget it.indeed,in my deep heart,i will not forget it. 

now i feel i hurt myself sometimes,so i hope i will be couregous to say "no"if i can't or not want do .i must protest myself,no one could help  you only yourself.

what's more ,the principle is very important in life,so insist your principle.or maybe life will be changed.

 

 

yesterday,i was not happy without any reason.it meaned that i couldn't find the right word to explain.

yesterday,i suddenly feel i was very lonely,espesially,when he had to go home and she wanted to do some shopping with her bf.at that time,i didn't want to do anything,only feel i couldn't smile .i didn't know why i called him and told him i was not happy with the hope that he could visit me .yeah.he never visit me until i left jinan city ,insteand  i came to zibo city for getting a good job.i had told him,but i was not happy,i felt i made a mistake that no need told him i felt lonely because he still lived alone .

i believe i will feel better after having good sleep.but now  i am not still happy,and still feel lonely.how i want to ba protected by my lover.how i want him embrace me ,kiss me .how i want to be his kid lying beside him.

but now,that is a dream,we work in two cities without enough money to get together.i feel my heart ache and on.

when i think he can't marriage with me ,my heart will ache ache and ache.i can't believe that ,how i want him marriage with me,how i want to see him everyday,how i want he can cook my favorite food for me.

i don't want the others who will not belong to me like or love me,i only wish my him love absolutely me.

when he said he want to marriage with me ,i have no idea to say,as i can't accept marriage so fast.

now i don't what is my true feelings.

but the reality is that i can't have ability to have a good job,my knowlege is not enough.so i must study and study.i believe i will stand lonely .i will be happy.nothing i can't do ,only do something for myself.

with best hope for my future.

we all know this idiom"the businessman will not do well business without treacherous".but now i want to say"businessman will do well and big business with sincerity".

when i have visited a small mountain village,there were many villagers complaining the businessmen who have deceived them .therefore all the villagers were not treat the stangers very friendly as before ,that stupid businessmen hurt their heart.so they lost the big markate as for small benifit.

but what happened made me change this idiom?

because during these days i have followed my manager doing business,they know each other very well ,and do business with sincerity.both of them have deep feelings .

that is my belief whether  you do anything ,it is important to have positive attitude and be sincrely to the others.

i don't know in the word who will be the best person you trust him absolutely.

now i want to see no body including yourself.it means that in the word ,there is full of change,so much change what you can't  thought.therefore we must ba ready to change in time ,whether you like or not ,or you will be changed by others not by yourself.in my view,i think that it is benefit if you change yourself actively.choose what you want to change,and after change will make your life better than now.

here all i want to say,be courageous to change with positive attitude ,life will be better.

so you haven't to trust anyone only fellow your nose.

thank you for your visiting my space,if you have the other thought ,please don't hesitate to discuss here.i am an open girl who want to express my idea very freely.